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Balthomer

Posted: Fri Sep 06, 2019 11:48 am
by Balthomer
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Re: Balthomer

Posted: Fri Sep 06, 2019 11:56 am
by izzul
Nothing wrong in fixing yourself and your life first mate, i had a 3 years vacation from 2014-2017 and came back to the server after i deal with all my RL things.

just imagine the server as a last resort to ease and relax after everything in your RL is already fine. Keep fighting and get well soon. :chores-chopwood:

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Fri Sep 06, 2019 12:55 pm
by DaloLorn
For my part, while Ilhara was pissed off about dying to Renor… I bear you no ill will. I have no experience with mental illness (that I know of, at least?), but I don't doubt that it can be a very serious problem if left unchecked.

Someday, I hope you can overcome whatever your problems are. With any luck, when you do, many of us will still be around to welcome you back. I certainly hope I will.

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2019 4:59 am
by Gorirah
There maybe many here who are familiar wih mental issues, myself included. There have been occasions where RP on some server or other has caused me flashbacks and I have dropped out of the game for a few months or even a couple of years. I hope you are not burdened by regret or a sense of loss, whatever happened is now just a lesson in a constructive sense.
There's a goblin in everyone's mind, the better you understand yours, the less of a hooligan it'll be. Good luck and I'm here to help if I can.

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2019 5:50 am
by Lambe
We will miss you, mate. I personally enjoy seeing the initiative you take in game.

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2019 9:56 am
by Maecius
Here's wishing you the best, Balthomer. I'm glad you're taking care of your health. It can be a hard fight, but it's a fight worth having. And this isn't goodbye: Helm willing, once you are on better footing and things are going your way, there'll still be a BG:TSCC here for you to play!

If you ever need someone to talk to, you know how to find me.

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2019 4:43 pm
by predrag
Sad to see you leave Balthomer .

I struggled with some psychological disorders myself , mostly anxiety and suicidal thoughts , so I can relate to some degree but not entirely .

I hope you come back one day healthy and happy , I will miss your characters and the fun times we had .

Take care of yourself well .

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Mon Sep 09, 2019 1:15 am
by Tekill
It takes time, and there is no rush. Slow and steady wins the race and all that...
Helm can definately wait. :P

Re: Balthomer

Posted: Wed Oct 09, 2019 5:07 pm
by calvinus
Balt, it was an honor to RP with you on here. I wish you all the best IRL given the struggles and of course would be excited to RP again if you decide to return (and I hope you are able to, but as Tekill said, slow and steady). Feel free to reach out on Discord as well any time!