Thank you for the input. I have heard you all and you were very passionate about what you said. The main thing going forward will be that if there is any conflict-oriented roleplay to be had, I'll whisper the person up front and request if I may approach them and present them with what will most likely be harmful to their character.
As a followup note to this, I will be retiring my character from the actively seeking out pvp encounters. I will most likely stop playing as much of Remus the Malarite, because while I understand that I am disrupting the fantasy many of you wish to build around your characters, such changes also disrupt what I wished to play. I will find other reasons on why Remus no longer hunts on the coast and not simply become "that harmless, polite politically correct malarite". Most likely, the character will simply move towards another hunting ground.
To clarify, I am upset over it all, but it is a normal feeling; to be upset over something not going your way. I will move on from it. It isn't me being angry at any specific player, it is mostly not liking what there is to see, once somebody bursts your bubble and shows you how things really are.
In short, while this kind of a RP is very fun to me, the fun parts were getting less common and the general OOC unhappiness on both sides was more frequent. This topic was a useful indicator that I should stop with what I am doing, mostly because, and I'll be honest here, I'm enraged by the world that so many wish to have, and no game should enrage you. The negatives simply started outweighing the positives, so it is a clear point where one should stop trying to push something that isn't working.
Again, thank you all for your input and strongly voiced opinions. You have been most helpful.