Something to consider. The players are metaphorical children and the admin is the metaphorical parents. The parents want what is best for the children. And the children want what is best for themselves. But the children do not necessarily know what is best for themselves and the parents do not necessarily know how to create what is best for the children. If the parents punish the children too much the children will hate the parents. If the parents do not punish the children enough, they will be spoiled and a detriment to not only the other children but also to themselves and the parents. Somewhere in the middle is the right spot. Any parent will know that there is no perfect method for handling this for every child let alone trying to create rules to fill this for hundreds. But from my limited perspective the parents lean on a too leanant parenting. Mostly because the children don't want any boundaries even if the boundaries are created in their best interest in mind. So the children get mad at the littlest boundary placed before them. The children, being self interested, will create excuses and believable scenarios to try and manipulate the parents into removing boundaries. But the parents must also try and see if this is a tool for manipulation or actually a boundary placed that is a detriment to the children's growth. Not easy being a parent.Valefort wrote:You know those restrictions come from UDers being on the surface in the first place, not surfacers coming in Underdark. Also the Upperdark was intoduced to have a set of areas where the two sides can interact without KoS threat. Your suggestions won't solve this and will end the Upperdark specificities.
With that said, most of us are not actually children. So we have a sense of bigger picture and perception far greater than a child would. But I also think that deep down in our base psychology there lies a child. And sometimes that child inside us convinces ourselves to fight against the boundaries even at the expense of a better all because your child has convinced us a greater self.
With all this said I think we should really think about what we are and what the admin are trying to do. As much as my inner child wants to fight the boundaries, I must realize that I do not alwsys know what is actually best for me.
Situations like the PvP encounter occur too often. When something like this happens report it and let the parents decide who is right or wrong. Or even better. Resolve it among yourselves. A solution where everyone is happy was in there somewhere. Find it. Probably better than what the admin will decide for you.