Demihuman Deities wrote:The followers of Eilistraee are figures of legend in both the Underdark and the Lands of Light. They are the subject of superstitions and wildly inaccurate mistruths, held by surface dwellers to be the evil vanguard of the Spider Goddess's plot to plunge all of Faerun into darkness under her rule and held by those drow who follow the Way of Lolth (or other evil gods) to be faerie (surface elf) invaders masquerading as dark elves in preparation for the coming war of annihilation.
Faiths and Pantheons wrote:The Church of Eilistraee is little known and poorly understood by the inhabitants of the surface world. Few among the surface-dwelling races give any credence to rumours of good-aligned drow emerging from the Underdark. The possibility of such a deity who supports such folk is simply beyond the ken of non-elves, who generally dismiss such talk as idle rumour or a plot by evil drow raiders.
Drow of the Underdark 2nd ed wrote:Drow. The Dark Elves. Those Who Have Turned to Evil. In elven tongues, they are referred to by several names: "tirl aukhbhet-ess," "tuer lothnil," and "duiss aszbhar." All of these translate to "The Accursed." The elegant, dark and deadly drow are a hated and feared race.
In the dangerous caverns of the Underdark dwell many horrible monsters, including the drow. Obsidian-skinned kin to elves, this fell race has won mastery of magicand a cruel reputation. Small children of Faerun hear whispered tales even before they are officially warned of Those Below.
As everyone knows, drow come by night, sporadically raiding the surface realms with their twisted magic and their near-invulnerability to the magic art of most wizards. They are masters of subtle treachery, and cannot be trusted even by their fellows.
So much I heard from a dozen hired swords and caravan-guards in the taverns of Waterdeep when I asked about drow (a subject best avoided, they gave me to know).
Cormanthyr: The Empire of Elves wrote:The only N'Tel'Quess that surface elves truly hate with a passion are the drow, and the drow equally hate and likewise refer to all other elves as N'Tel'Quess.
Cormanthyr: The Empire of Elves wrote:Myth Drannor's mythal prevents the entrance of certain races into the fair city. Chromatic dragons (in draconic or shapechanged forms), drow, duergar, illithids, doppelgangers, orcs, ogres, hobgoblins, and goblins cannot enter the mythal from above, below, or at ground level. The mythal acts as an effective magical barrier as solid as a mountain of stone against their entry.
I'm not sure if I need to point out anything more, but you can see what's written here quite clearly.
More so, you're asking for people to be tolerant of a race that has been mass-slaughtering members of surface races since millennia, in the most atrocious ways possible (Reason why Shevarash Exists. Dark Court Slaughter). Sure, there exists Eilistraee. There are cases where Eilistraeens are acknowledged. But they're not
accepted. Not even quite much
tolerated, if the only way they allow them to exists is to throw them literally outside of the entire empire during Myth Drannor's time (which, also, didn't allow any drow of any alignment and faith inside) where they get literally next to no contact with elven populations.
Why do I think that's not really reasonable to ask for? Primarily because Forgotten Realms offers more than enough examples of people literally hating others - even good-aligned creatures - for deeds of the fellows of their race. The best example is with dragons after the Year of the Rogue Dragons. In Dragons of Faerun, there's an organisation described- Sisterhood of Essembra. They are half-song and half-silver dragons that help followers of draconic deities become Dragonborn (3.5 edition) and try to dissuade people living in Dalelands from
hating all dragons, including metallic ones due to the carnage that they have caused upon the land and its people. Not just a few stray humans or something. Entire populations of Dalelands. They view all dragons, including the known good-aligned ones, with anger and suspicion. Effectively making them at least unwelcome in their lands.
Regarding the comment of the Eilistraeen drow on Evermeet- yup. In 1368DR there comes one onto the island. Only three persons on the entire Green Isle know of her existence, that includes Amlaruil, and she knows that this can't come out to the light because all elves of Evermeet would riot and revolt at what they would consider a
sacrilege. On top of the Eilistraeen ambassador there being pointless, as elves will never agree for any drow, Eilistraeen or not, to be allowed to Evermeet. They haven't allowed for that even during the times when Drow were Dark Elves for a reason of the Dark Elves, already, being in majority evil. Dark Elves didn't even participate in creating Evermeet for the reason of them being evil
I'm not saying surface drow should be impossible. They do exist. Not really in this region and depending on the region they may be extremely reviled, moderately so, or tolerated as trade partners (Calimshan, Darkhold, Zhentil Keep). What I am saying is that there is a real, literal canon-lore based hatred against drow kind, regardless of their supposed faith. And that is -also- a legitimate thing for characters to roleplay. Hating drow. Rather common across the Realms. Recognising Eilistraee, acknowledging her and supporting her is, quite clearly stated numerous times, as a rare thing indeed. By default- that's
non-conforming with social standards in many cultures (not all of them, of course). If surface drow were to be wholly accepted, tolerated and liked, even if they are Eilistraeens, they would -not- have the entire schtick about redeeming their race and proving that they can be established as good-aligned surface race, as well as there would not be numerous passages about drow being utterly reviled and not trusted at all, with exception to individuals that have proved themselves to be heroes (which is where TSR and WotC always brings Drizzt up as that one and only super powerful utterly good only drow that managed to turn away from his heritage).
To summarise: Drow on the surface? Sure. They totally exist. Not really in this region, but they exist and they are a very much viable concept for a character- nothing to hate or be afraid of. Israe'Anna was an approved surface drow, for example. Should they be treated differently depending on faith? Well, PCs be PCs. It's best left to individual PCs to decide their stance on the drow and what they think is right for them and what is wrong, that is the wonder of a roleplay persistent world. You can roleplay many things! Should they be tolerated by societies depending on faith and/or alignment? By the canon setting? No. Not quite. Barring few corner cases, not quite at all. They are boogeymen used to scare children with and not in any joking manner. By our server setting? Honestly, we shouldn't really have surface drow around these parts, but even then. I'd expect that to be changed only after actual, consistent, well-played roleplay that may eventually sway singular societies into "Hm, maybe I may think twice before attacking a drow b/c they might not be against me", but not expecting "OKAY WE ALL LOVE DROW NOW OF SUCH AND SUCH FAITH AND ALIGNMENT" from the get-go and to happen in but a month or two.
To summarise the above summarise: Both concepts of hating drow and supporting drow, regardless of faith and alignment, are very viable concepts that shouldn't be OOCly hated because it makes no freaking sense for the setting in the first place. However, they -should- be handled appropriately for our setting.
Remember, even though someone does a concept re: drow, one way or another, it doesn't mean you have to do it too or that the entire world is against you.
That's how I see the setting base. I'm not going to touch the mechanical aspects of drow (and, by extension, other Underdark races that are also reviled, with exception to deep gnomes. Deep gnomes are the real victims of Forgotten Realms world) as that's a whoooooole different argument and this topic has been derailed quite a bit.
Also, Liriel Baenre best drow.