Having trouble with RP Meta Gaming and character motivations
Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2017 2:46 am
Not sure if this is in the right place.
After recently trying to start an organization In character with out looking at any outside sources. Because I did not see this a problem for some light-hearted soliderin' as my character calls it. Has been greeted with a lot of Meta Gaming/Mocking.
Look I get that you have cliques' and that you might need to have Approvals to start an Organization but when your mocking character IC for your OOC believes or mocking them IC for over looking an OOC rule or regulation it's just not cool. How the hell would your character know this info.
Not everyone is entirely aware of every single regulation when they are just starting out. Still not even sure what is going on be honest. But I will look into it.
What I am frustrated about is the AMAZING amount of META gaming. No clue I needed to seek approval to do Anything IC as long as I did the work to ROLEPLAY it correctly. Which was supported by other charters actions.
Then you have characters Meta Gaming IC and openly mocking you because you're unaware of a possible OOC ruling.
Had a Dwarf Make a Sign calling my character an idiot. Without provocation IC. A REALISTIC character would not act like this. A Thayan Knight telling me he cares about the political ramifications of starting a Militia.
And a Harry Potter Knock off with a bad attitude insult me probably both IC and OOC questions the LEGAL ramifications of a Militia. In a world where Fey are attacking the frindly Arm Inn. When you have an Alliance with the ZHENTS and Baldurs gate.
Literally just trying to Make the RP light and fun and not tied down by Cliques behavior. Why is any of this an issue when you have people behaving in ways that don't reflect the lore in any way shape or form.
I just don't get it. I keep roleplaying solid characters and I get people telling I need approval to wipe my ass. For what roleplaying with a group of friends on our free time in RPish sever.
Starting to really question what the hells the point at all. I made a character with no depth because you hated my Thayan character and MOCKED him OOC and IC. For not wanting to be part of a guild. Or capitulating to the demands of people I barely know. Over a misunderstanding of hierarchal command structure of a fictional group. which nearly destroyed my intrest in playing the character. d Never been a fan of guilds for this exact reason.
This time has been no different I made a character that no one can easily dislike completely average farm boy with Zero Depth so I DON'T STEP ON ANYONES TOES. And people loved it or at least tolerated the character. Until I decide to add Depth.
As soon as I add Depth or try to make progress in any meaningful way. Like add a back story and Motivation for Existing. Like starting a IC light-hearted organization with people that want to RP Drilling and marching and have gotten other people interested my real friend in Real life . Then BAM.. I'm doing something wrong again and being MOCKED IC for something I may have missed OOC.
I'm not sure if people are reinforcing cliques. Not sure if people are PISSED off because of change. Or my Ignorance for not understanding a possible rule. not sure If people want to force me to follow a rule I'm unfamiliar with. Not sure if you hate me or my characters. But I'm just lost here.
Why is it so hard just to have some fun. I'm getting told IC that groups will be angry for starting a militia. Fine I won't start a stupid militia I won't add depth to my characters. I will join the retarded druid who hisses and growls at people. which is probaly insulting to people with mental illness anyways but I don't care about that kind of thing.
My friends don't want to log on after they watched the display earlier today. They don't really want to be part of the internal politics of the server.
We just want to have fun without ruffling any ones feathers. So what am I suppose to do to have an effective character been here for more then 6 months and join a already functioning guild/ clique and follows orders? Or just never work towards anything but grinding on my own hunting goblins and bandits.
Sorry not sure if this is the right place. But yeah what am I suppose to do? What's an effective character suppose to act like and how do I please you people?
And really with the amount of magic being cast and the over the top silliness of the server so far that I have seen on a regular basis. That the gods that these characters worship would strip them of powers from constant missue. people would be tossed out of towns for being lunitics.
I get that there is a certain amount of campiness. But the EGGSHELL politics is drving me mad. Approval for this to RP your character this way or Approval for that.
Serriously made a character with ZERO depth soon as I add DEPTH .. I get issues
So YOU Tell me what I'm suppose to ROLEPLAY. A half drow elf with dad issues who becomes a Paladin for the Silver Spoon Guild or something? Would that be realistic? Or is that also in need of approval.
I feel better after Ranting a little. Thoughts?
After recently trying to start an organization In character with out looking at any outside sources. Because I did not see this a problem for some light-hearted soliderin' as my character calls it. Has been greeted with a lot of Meta Gaming/Mocking.
Look I get that you have cliques' and that you might need to have Approvals to start an Organization but when your mocking character IC for your OOC believes or mocking them IC for over looking an OOC rule or regulation it's just not cool. How the hell would your character know this info.
Not everyone is entirely aware of every single regulation when they are just starting out. Still not even sure what is going on be honest. But I will look into it.
What I am frustrated about is the AMAZING amount of META gaming. No clue I needed to seek approval to do Anything IC as long as I did the work to ROLEPLAY it correctly. Which was supported by other charters actions.
Then you have characters Meta Gaming IC and openly mocking you because you're unaware of a possible OOC ruling.
Had a Dwarf Make a Sign calling my character an idiot. Without provocation IC. A REALISTIC character would not act like this. A Thayan Knight telling me he cares about the political ramifications of starting a Militia.
And a Harry Potter Knock off with a bad attitude insult me probably both IC and OOC questions the LEGAL ramifications of a Militia. In a world where Fey are attacking the frindly Arm Inn. When you have an Alliance with the ZHENTS and Baldurs gate.
Literally just trying to Make the RP light and fun and not tied down by Cliques behavior. Why is any of this an issue when you have people behaving in ways that don't reflect the lore in any way shape or form.
I just don't get it. I keep roleplaying solid characters and I get people telling I need approval to wipe my ass. For what roleplaying with a group of friends on our free time in RPish sever.
Starting to really question what the hells the point at all. I made a character with no depth because you hated my Thayan character and MOCKED him OOC and IC. For not wanting to be part of a guild. Or capitulating to the demands of people I barely know. Over a misunderstanding of hierarchal command structure of a fictional group. which nearly destroyed my intrest in playing the character. d Never been a fan of guilds for this exact reason.
This time has been no different I made a character that no one can easily dislike completely average farm boy with Zero Depth so I DON'T STEP ON ANYONES TOES. And people loved it or at least tolerated the character. Until I decide to add Depth.
As soon as I add Depth or try to make progress in any meaningful way. Like add a back story and Motivation for Existing. Like starting a IC light-hearted organization with people that want to RP Drilling and marching and have gotten other people interested my real friend in Real life . Then BAM.. I'm doing something wrong again and being MOCKED IC for something I may have missed OOC.
I'm not sure if people are reinforcing cliques. Not sure if people are PISSED off because of change. Or my Ignorance for not understanding a possible rule. not sure If people want to force me to follow a rule I'm unfamiliar with. Not sure if you hate me or my characters. But I'm just lost here.
Why is it so hard just to have some fun. I'm getting told IC that groups will be angry for starting a militia. Fine I won't start a stupid militia I won't add depth to my characters. I will join the retarded druid who hisses and growls at people. which is probaly insulting to people with mental illness anyways but I don't care about that kind of thing.
My friends don't want to log on after they watched the display earlier today. They don't really want to be part of the internal politics of the server.
We just want to have fun without ruffling any ones feathers. So what am I suppose to do to have an effective character been here for more then 6 months and join a already functioning guild/ clique and follows orders? Or just never work towards anything but grinding on my own hunting goblins and bandits.
Sorry not sure if this is the right place. But yeah what am I suppose to do? What's an effective character suppose to act like and how do I please you people?
And really with the amount of magic being cast and the over the top silliness of the server so far that I have seen on a regular basis. That the gods that these characters worship would strip them of powers from constant missue. people would be tossed out of towns for being lunitics.
I get that there is a certain amount of campiness. But the EGGSHELL politics is drving me mad. Approval for this to RP your character this way or Approval for that.
Serriously made a character with ZERO depth soon as I add DEPTH .. I get issues
So YOU Tell me what I'm suppose to ROLEPLAY. A half drow elf with dad issues who becomes a Paladin for the Silver Spoon Guild or something? Would that be realistic? Or is that also in need of approval.
I feel better after Ranting a little. Thoughts?