Currently I've only got it to "private" or w.e so far, since when my friend tries to direct join, she gets a message saying "Connection to server timed out".
So i went on multiplayer, clicked new game and filled the stuff in. It loaded fine then (Didn't test to see if my friend could join then) but now when i closed that and went back on multiplayer and loaded the game, i get this:

It just says on this for a while.
In the meantime while all this is on going, i have my NWserver loaded:

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Any ideas or questions on what to do? Maybe this is offtopic but im really struck on what to do and have been browsing everywhere (First time actually trying to host a module).
Does my friend direct connect to the first IP, or the 2nd IP? (In the pictures)