The overall attempt here is a bit of education. The hostility against other players summons/familiars/companions is IMO out of control(baring the obvious necromancy etc). I feel people are using this as a loop hole to pvp, and grief people. The personal incidents I've been in have been ether resolved at the lowest level by reasonable people, or reported to DMs. My wifes incident resulted in her total disinterest with the server.. The other random people I've seen this happen to, is their business.Ok.
Let me stop you right there.
I would never do any of this, whether it is in my PCs behavior or not, because it is a douche move..
1. You can kill ANY summons at ANY time.
2. The ridiculous "leave or die" RP out can be handed to a player any time.... and then a thumping would commence. It's lame, but it is allowed.
3. The fact the summons/companion (except dog) is in the purview of the guards, that is god modding. So if you have a Hellhound right outside FAI entrance... you are godmodding, because the guards would kill it...and probably the player as well.
Players should be respectful of others, but if someone is breaking your immersion outside FAI or anywhere... ignore them. If it REALLY bothers you. Take a screenshot and PM the DM group here on the forums.
It just feels like this thread is going on in a cycle.... You can look up my posts where a "paladin" killed my Druid's dog companion because he was in FAI. He was wrong on all counts as he did not do the following:
1. Mind the PvP initiation rules, as there was no RP out or consent given"
2. The dog is not considered to be "monstrous or a wild animal"
3. He attacked something considered to be a player (companions are to be treated as players) in front of the guards, therefore godmodding
4. He self appointed himself to "clean up" the wrong outside FAI.
I was pissed, mostly cause the dog's name was removed after the death and never came back.
But the rules are there as a guideline. We, the community help police ourselves and educate the unintiated, and report those who refuse to conform and let the DMs make the ruling of right or wrong and execute the punishment, if any.
In closing, relax. Not like anyone lost any xp, gold or equipment. Retcon the event and just move forward.
YOU reading this may totally not be responsible for anything wrong, that's obvious(for some reason it almost feels like it needs to be said). Yet there is a large amount of this happening. I think people should know and think about it.