Confession!
I'm pretty relaxed in general! and I will treat most people with respect and kindness (mostly duo to me being a big cuddle-bear behind the screen). 
However. I have a hairline trigger if I feel that players ignore or outright disrespect other people ooc'ly, or prevent them from being able to play their character entirely. This either through harassment, respect-less pc-capture and imprisonment (without any "out"), negative backtalking or excluding folk from rp they well deserve to be part of. And I will go out of my way IC and OOC to see it stopped. 
This has in the past let me to fly off the handle, and outright had me chose to ignore people (ooc and ic)who I felt was doing such things. 
Many of these things are now kept in check via rules set in place. So I've not done it in a long time! However I did also do it once when it was unfounded! (know both sides of the tale before one judges!). So point of this confession is to say that... well, I'm human (most of us are. A few are trolls tho), and where I will ignore any "know better than thou"-personalities or like the above, 
ignorant %¤#@ who don't have common courtesy bad-people!... I am always ready to help with questions, if your trapped in some horrifying place or just need someone to talk to 

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We are here to have fun, together. And I've always (and will always) fight for that aspect of our server, and community. 
But, safe to say... Sorry if i've ever gone hulk-judge-dredd on anyone undeserving  

. My heart is often in the right place... my mouth could learn a thing or two tho  
