I am a completely new player (to BG:scc not NWN2 or Baldurs Gate and BG II for that matter(also played a lot of Dark alliance 1&2 on the PS2 lol)) just finally got multiplayer working and saw this server. I came here because of a very similar issue. I'll try it again, hopefully it will be resolved and I'll see you all in game.
Welcome! If it's not working, don't hesitate to reach out again. The community's quite happy to help with troubleshooting and uploading any files that decide to be difficult when it comes to downloading.
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