I admit I'm surprised by the choice to offer an 18 option. I mean, I'm totally onboard with that, but I for one am also okay with the 20 option instead if you choose to go that route. I hope the new rules will help you deal with violations in a much more expedient manner. And I think we can certainly reconsider them if there continues to be issues.
I'm personally not a fan of one strike and you're out, but as long as the reporting player has provided enough evidence to prove that the other player is actually breaking this rule and there is some consideration as to whether or not the offending player actually broke it, then I'm fine with it. My only concern with one-strike rules is innocent players getting caught in the crossfire. Though, if one strike means one warning and then ban on second report, rather than ban on first report, then I have no issue with it. Though I do support what Xorena suggests, and including the option to ban on first report if the evidence is bad enough.
And I definitely see why you jumped in with the rule change right away. As they say, the perfect is the enemy of the good, and by going forward with those changes, even if they weren't the final ones, you opened the door for discussion and an eventual final rule. As long as there is willingness to take community concerns into account, which there has been, then I have no issue with how this has been handled, personally.
I also reiterate the suggestion I made to SummerBreeze about changing the default bio presented to players at chargen with a summary of character creation rules (or even just a general introduction to the server and links to relevant forum posts) to ensure these kinds of things aren't missed by people who don't regularly use forums. If this is something the DMs feel worthwhile, let me know and I can implement it.
I imagine it'd be whichever the player would prefer. Retroactively aging up or shelving until they'd be the right age.DaloLorn wrote: ↑Fri Apr 09, 2021 11:50 am For the sake of discussion, though...
You mentioned no grandfathering in option 1. What happens to existing characters, then? In my case, Pixanie and Berred - would they need to be retroactively aged up (or have their birthdays defined accordingly), shelved until they'd be the right age, or what? (It's been nearly 2 years since Kana was created, so whenever her birthday is, she can't be far from 21 anymore. Well over the limit for option 1.)