lilani wrote:It was perhaps 2 weeks after I joined that I met my first Drow faction member who wasn't of a lolthite house. I was travelling with felyrna at the time when he appeared. I had seen their name on the forums and hoped we'd get chance to speak and i'd find my way into the faction i'd intended.
However things did not quite play out as i'd hoped, more intent on picking a fight with Felyrna than speaking to me, an argument between them broke out, Fel was killed. At first he was surprised i didn't fight back (i had an ooc tell), but after that rather than speak to my obviously dressed & buffed wizard toon, he departed without so much as answering a question of what his name was and ignored my attempts to strike up IC RP.
Pretty much after that my mind was made up to join with the Lolth factions as it simply was the only faction in 2 weeks i'd been able to have any meaningful RP with, i've rerolled a priestess and have since then been having alot of fun with my faction.
Yes, that encounter was most unfortunate. 3-4 outs were even offered for that one, and that was a bit OOC as Amon wouldn't have been so patient.
I am sorry my roleplay wasn't to your liking, but, personally, I don't like seeing or participating in "active" recruiting. I see it as a very very OOC activity and I do frown upon it. Such recruitments should occur more naturally, and Amon wouldn't be the one in his school doing active recruiting. So all the recruiting I do occurs when others seek out the school. They can send me a tell asking to join, and I will me happy to set up the recruitment, but it needs to all be done IC and done naturally.
As for my not continuing to roleplay with your PC that was all done in character. Your PC stood there silently while two others in your group were very discourteous and insulting to Amon (unfortunatly the other had to leave). Amon didn't know your name, or who you are aligned with. All he knew was that your PC was traveling with a Lolthite priest and that you never offered to back him up verbally or in the conflict. It is sort of a guilt by association thing. I soloed Amon most of my time in the UD for that same reason. Those you fight with or hang around will be seen by others as your allies. Amon is not interested in “recruiting” someone who hangs around zealous disrespectful Lolthite priests. Also, your PC was female, which didn’t help matters as Amon is, while courteous to Jalilen, a bit of a male chauvinist. So I hope you see that I really was keeping IC with Amon and that is just how he is.
The whole of the conflict was basically Amon trying to find out what your group was doing in the caves. He is very suspicious of those he does not know of being spies. The priest refused to answer and was disrespectful to Amon. While she could have just refused to answer and gone on her way, the disrespectful part was not going to fly. And then after that conflict Amon asked your PC the same question. Your PC answered it and Amon found it believable, if not a waste of time. That is all he wanted to know so he had no other reason to stick around. He isn’t going to give his name to just anyone, if you’re lucky you may get his title. If you really wanted to join the school, you have to be far more forthcoming and open about your intentions to do so.
lilani wrote:1) Actively recruit rather than actively ignoring newer UD players, this includes non Drow races - if someone rolls a duegar, being spoken to the way I see some players addressing them is going to be a huge turn off to them staying around. I appreciate they are viewed as a lower class, but there are ways in which to RP that without taking it to the complete extreme.
As said, that is a big no no in my book. If you play a racist drow, you best stay IC without exception. If you hate Lolthites, you best not be having tea with them, unless you poisoned their tea of course

or you plan on backstabbing them later . I hope you get where I am coming from. If players can't take harsh RP and understand that it is all IC and not take it personally they probably shouldn't be starting a character in the UD. For me when I RP it is like I am watching a movie, except I am also writing the script in real time. I may even send tells to the guy insulting my PC saying "that was lols, etc.."
lilani wrote:2) make it easy to recruit new members into your faction, even if its giving them a lesser title & responsibilities until they reach a higher level - having to be lvl 10 to join a faction means most players are going to already be in a faction by the time they are of that level.
Why make it easy? Wouldn't that mean that your faction has no prestige, since anyone can join. I am a retired Marine, I can tell you from experience that if we had just let everyone have a pass in boot camp the Marine Corps wouldn't be the prestigious organization it is today. I don't mind if player factions are easy to join, that is fine, but factions based in lore, having actual power in the government, must have standards. The Charnag Maelthra have standards, and so will every single school in Sshamath. You can also join the Charnag through the schools now as it should be. You should start as a member of a school and then apply to the Charnag.
The standards for joining the School of Necromancy aren't that difficult. Take a look at the Schools thread
here. Its simple really, specialized in necromancy, congratz you can be a wizard of the school and work up the ranks from a lowly level 1 student. Want to join the regular enlisted, non-magic focused type ranks, congratz you can be just about anything, and class, and still join, but again, starting at the bottom rung, and you need to be level 3.
I also just "recruited" a level 19 player the other day, he is also starting from the bottom, like everyone else. He sought the school out, we didn't seek him.
lilani wrote:3) this is something really for the dm's - if the city is supposed to be ruled by a conclave of npc wizards that took the city by force from the matrons, then their authority (within) the city needs to be felt more. (that or more power needs to be granted to players of those factions).
I'm not suggesting anything overly drastic, but I've witnessed lolthite clerics publically forcing other drow to kneel in front of them etc. I'd of thought that this kind of behaviour would be seen by those in power as a challenge to their authority. It wouldn't hurt if priestesses who take liberties in public within city walls had the tables turned on them every now and then. A group of NPC guards arresting & abjectly humiliating her publically much to the delight of her poor victim might be a thought.
Agreed, this is something that needs to be addressed and worked on.