I played a Silvanite druid for many many years. I was part of the elder circle and ended up leaving to do my own thing due to the way the RP of the character played out in the end. Sure i made some mistakes and did some thing people might not consider druidic but i was willing to learn from it.
The thing that bugs me more than anything about Druid RP on BG is how quickly the idea of guardianship and timeless wisdom, which is the foundation of what it means to be a druid is discarded because "oh a DM event i cant miss that, ill find the most meaningless way to participate despite the fact that i would have no real reason to actually care"
Most Druids dont care about the perils of the civilized world until they spill out and cause great harm to the natural order.
Silvanus
Chauntea and her followers and for the most part they are all farmers, and even then they don't really interfere with things unless its a major disturbance, their followers are more akin to clerics praying to a goddess for a good seasons harvest.The church of Silvanus endlessly strives to preserve the sacred Balance, despite population pressures that lead to too-heavy hunting or farming. Members of the clergy work to redirect development and control populations through covert sponsorship of brigands, breeding and selective placing of predators, and other means. It is essential that such work be as secretive as possible, so that most folk view the servants of Silvanus as essentially benign lovers of trees. Wildlife breeding, nursing sick animals, and replanting trees and wild shrubs are all work that should be done as publicly as possible to support this perception--and as necessary work to redress the slipping Balance, of course. Silvanite clergy make a lifelong study the intricate workings of the life-cycles of all living creatures in Faerun and learn to take the long-term view so that the manifold implications of every action and combination of actions can be seen clearly well into the future. By planning for the long term, Silvanite clergy hope never to take a serious misstep and worsen any shift of the Balance. Superior patience, natural knowledge, and anticipation are the hallmarks of a worthy servant of Silvanus. They are also the qualities that make any Silvanite cleric a deadly foe. A Silvanite should never be surprised at an unexpected turn of events and always be three or four steps ahead of an opponent, prepared for victories well beyond the battles that an enemy can see.
"oh look a group of balor are attacking, lets send the gardeners to fight them off."Clerical Practice
Clerics prayed for their spells at sundown, as did druids. They usually led dual lives as either gardeners or farmers, and were industrious people. They were expected to appreciate natural beauty and possess a feeling for meditation.
I could go on and on and on but the point is every time i have seen a druid in character (with a few minor exceptions) Its always "LOOK AT ME IM A DRAGON AND I CAN STOMP EVERYTHING!" Or sitting around in a bar/pub like any other local adventurer.
An animal fur outfit or a few sticks and leaves do not make you a druid.